How to Recognize Narcisstic people or realise you are Narcistsstic one ?
I have always found the human subconscious of a vast field of bound thoughts, emotions, stories, fantasies, and distorted realities. I'm impressed how easy it is to diagnose someone based on various symptoms, transformations in childhood, unplanned youth years, or painfully depressed complexes.
Society requires us to be "unique", "different", "strong characters", "professionally realized", "good mothers" and many other labels, so nowadays many people create a fake image that keeps at the cost of everything.These people are in many cases sick of narcissism !
How to Recognize Narcisstic people ?
1. They always try to be different
Trying to be different, we often leave behind the only thing that distinguishes us from all others - the fact that we are ourselves. Unspoiled, natural, non-threatening. The narcissists forget who they are because they can not feel affection and compassion for themselves. Then they turn into those who "should be," forgetting their true nature, deeply stifled and choking beneath the pillow of illusion.
2.They have Inability to accept criticism
Who said we should be perfect? Whether parents, classmates, colleagues or friends - all over the place, though for a few minutes, we have felt insecure and not good enough. The narcissists are "born" by the unceasing desire to be the best, most impeccable, placed on a pedestal - a non-existent peak of domination over others. And to punish every one who allowed himself to challenge their majesty.
3.They always want to have moer ...
More money, a better friend, a richer husband, a more powerful car, more interesting experiences, more power, more, more and more ... Leading paradoxically to less: Fewer real friends, less valuable time with the family, less desire to connect with ourselves, nature, and spiritual.
4.The vast web of conventions
We use in order not to be used; We love to be loved; We give it in order to get. Every beautiful package comes with unsigned conditions to be followed. Narcotics perceive other people as tools that can be useful of them in order to achieve their goals.
5.The delusion of what they deserve
One of the main signs that you can recognize every narcissist is the constant feeling that everyone is obliged to. You have to care for him, pay attention to him, caress his ego, understand him, silence his bad attitude, and agree with all his choices. It is not so difficult to get into a narcissist's network, as you yourself become one. The enthusiasm that you get is more than what you desurve this is toxic but also so charming at the same time, is not so?
6.They have Endless expectations
"I do not expect anything, and I'm still disappointed." Starting from the previous argument, we come to my favorite topic of expectations. Narrators live with the premise that everyone around them reads their thoughts. They, for their part, do not feel the slightest desire to read strangers simply because they are not interested. And that should not be the case - empathy and the desire to understand and know the opposite side is an important communication and human skill.
7.They never admit that they are wrong
It is up to you to be right, especially when you want to show how much better you are. But why is it so necessary to get out of the situation, and when you are wrong, are you afraid to admit it? Lack of tolerance and mocking of complacency are two fundamental reasons for people to develop narcissism in themselves. Then they become more closed and do not recognize when they are wrong. The cycle is repeated to infinity ...
8.The delusion that we will be better without ...
When we need to protect ourselves, we create high walls around us, difficult to jump, and even more difficult to demolish. We are convinced that when someone leaves us, he really do not deserve us; When we offend our relatives, they must have begun the first; When we are ourselves, we will surely be hurt so its easyer to pretend. The truth is that all people with narcissistic inclinations or not are vulnerable. And only when we realize that recognizing this is a manifestation of force, we can boldly declare ourselves free.
Self-loving or not, real or not, unique or not, there one thing that unites all people: the quest to be happy. Therefore, before we criticize, hate or deny someone's beliefs, we can try to understand, accept and forgive. And most of all we need to give love !
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One of the biggest problems with narcissists is that they project their own flaws onto other people instead of dealing with them themselves. This is purely subconscious so they don't realize they are doing it. They fully believe that the victim of their abusive behavior is truly the abusive one. I'm about to write a post about this right now in fact. Obicham te lubov moja!
Is so hard sometimes , this people are so charming right ? Many timse the victum face all this problems but still try , stay , and love .............. I cannot undarstan this :(
Yes that is another disorder called codependency.
I think there is nothing wrong in being narcissistic like being gay or lesbian, we have no control over it. We should accept these people as they are.
I dont think we should acept this , usual narcissists are manipulative and very abusive !
Well there's a difference between narcissism and actual NPD. Everybody has some level of narcissism. Usually the term is used in reference to when it becomes a massive problem for the others in their lives who they manipulate and abuse. "True" narcissists can actually be extremely abusive and sometimes even downright dangerous people.
Truly agreed with your opinions.
Totally agree
A well written article @patelincho about Narcisstic , thanks for sharing
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This is good post....that's what people ought to learn to love and to understand that we're not all the same..learn to accept people for who they are...upvoted and followed you
At last learnt to see what people are ...
Well said @patelincho!! Thanks for sharing with us and great analysis!! Appreciated!!
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One of the most toxic behaviors ugh😐
Very interesting material and definitely confirmed my suspicions about someone.
We all know this people ....
100% full upvote. People need to know about this stuff. Followed.
They dont want to know , true hurts :)
But sometimes the signs of a narcissism are a little more nuanced , Not all narcissists are loud and proud, In fact some are quiet and shy and they probably have no idea about what they are
Ohh quiet and shy ..............is not an narcissist :)
i know people who do
We all know this sort of people :)
Congratulations for a very good analysis about narcissists and a way on how to understand their situation!
Hope some of them will do :)