RE: Musing Posts
The right way to end love relationships well without hurting your heart :
1. Determine the Right Time
Revealing the broken word to a partner can be done at any time. However, you should look at and determine the right time when you want to say it. Don't end the relationship when your partner is in a lot of trouble or is running an important event. It could be that your decision further worsens the situation. Wait for the right time and tell the truth.
2. Say Directly and Honestly
If your decision is mature, say it directly to him. Try to avoid ending your love affair through short messages or phone calls, invite your partner to meet and say what you feel. Don't make a bad impression in front of your partner. If he doesn't want to meet you, act mature to respect his decision.
3. Use the right reasons
Say what you feel, don't make unreasonable reasons. Express all complaints and why you want to end the relationship with him. Be honest with feelings that are felt, so your partner can understand your position. When you feel uncomfortable or are bored, say and don't lie.
4. Explain with Good Words
When you explain the reason why you want to end a relationship, it's not uncommon for your partner to be emotional. It is natural that it is emotional but, you should not be provoked by emotions too. Try to explain using good, smooth words. Avoid saying harshly, or even blame your partner.
5. Give time
Ending a relationship is not fun. Naturally, if your partner tends to be quiet or sad, he could be surprised and not ready for your decision. Don't push yourself too hard to accept a decision, try giving himself time to calm down and think.
6. Establish friendships
Even though the relationship is over, it doesn't mean to be an enemy. It never hurts to make your ex-lover a friend or your best friend. That way, you can still establish a good relationship with him. If your partner is not ready to become a friend, you should not force it and let it flow naturally.