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Marriage is the beginning of a long journey in life with a partner. Sometimes for men, marriage is a frightening specter. The reason is, after marriage they can no longer be as free as when they were single.
Indeed there are certain things that cannot be done again after marriage. But don't let you as a man feel limited and not free. With good communication with your partner, these things can be compromised again.
The following are things that should be done before marriage:
1. Hangout with your friends
You can go back to your friends when you were in school or college. From just asking news to inviting them to reunion again.
Why? Because after marriage, the opportunity to gather more with your old friends will be less.
2. Start reducing the habit of coarse cursing
In addition to being rude, if this habit is constantly carried out then your partner will likely not like it and may cause disagreement with him. After getting married many things change drastically.
You should be able to slowly adapt and change bad habits to harmonize your relationship with your partner.
3. Manage finances
The goal is that financials in the household will remain stable. If you cannot manage your finances well, you should not force yourself to get married until you are truly ready, including being financially prepared.
4. Start participating in cooking
Later this can help harmonize the relationship between you and your partner. Often men ignore this and consider cooking only for women. Even though putting together can be a romantic activity that makes your relationship more happy.
5. Satisfy traveling
After marriage, the opportunity to make your own tourist destination or with friends will automatically decrease. Your time will most certainly be focused on households. Therefore, it would be nice before you get married to satisfy yourself traveling to various interesting tourist destinations that have not been visited. Traveling will also change your mind's way of looking at life in the future.
6. Hobbies
Start learning and doing things that have been your interest, whether learning martial arts, learning musical instruments, such as guitars, or other hobbies. After marriage you will not get more time to do it regularly.