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RE: Musing Posts

in #musing-threads6 years ago

Taste in the human heart is diverse. There likes, Love is the feeling of wanting to keep giving. Obsession is a feeling of wanting to continue to have

Obsession is a feeling of wanting to have

There is a fundamental difference between love and obsession. When we love someone, we always want to give and make your loved ones happy. But if your feelings are only in the form of a desire to have a very strong one until you are willing to do anything to have it, it is an obsession. Love really needs to be fought for. But there is always a limit.

Like poet's words, love does not always have to have. Love can happen and continue to exist, even though you can only stare silently from afar. In contrast to obsession, your feelings for him merely want to have. The feeling of wanting to have it has no limits, before you really get it, even if it's in negative ways.

Love is when we learn to love others more than ourselves. Being in an obsession whatever you do is only for yourself

In obsession everything is done for yourself

When we fall in love, it is when we learn to love and work for the best for others. Because of love, you always want to try to be a better person every day. You try your best to stabilize yourself so that it is worthy of coupling with it. Your goal is only one, make it happy, which means making yourself happy too.

But in obsession, whatever you do is for yourself. The desire to have it is so great, and you will do various ways to get it. Changing to another figure can be done, but it's not to stabilize yourself so that you can match it, but only to be able to make it yours.

Love is accepting - letting it hone itself then embracing the results. Obsession is the desire to shape it into the person you like

Love is acceptance as is

Love is the acceptance of what it is via

When you love someone, you accept him as he is. The feeling of love you have is almost no effort. That is to say, even though he appears so, he has flaws that often make you resentful, sometimes being so annoying, but you still feel happy with him. Are you receiving it? Both of you try to stabilize themselves for the sake of days in the future.

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