The thing that men must do before marriage is self and mental preparation, one of the preparations that must be done by a man who wants to get married. For you Muslim, you will be a priest for your family, be prepared to be a leader, a person who becomes the head of the household . You also have to be able to learn to respect and respect your partner, get to know your partner really and accept the background. Not infrequently we see a marriage that fails and stops in the middle of the road. Therefore everything needs to be prepared, especially marriage that is expected to last once in a lifetime.