RE: Musing Posts
Value yourself a little more. She is not taking you seriously and you deserve something more. If you have been unfaithful once, you can do it again at any time, and even more if you have forgiven. The latter makes her see you as something safe, hard to lose. It is hard, but it is best to show that it is not so.
Leave her. Maybe that's how you learn to value yourself and come and look for you again. In any case that woman will not make you happy, she will always have you suffering because she is demonstrating that you can not trust her.
Be careful, you can end up wrapped emotionally and sentimentally without having a future with that person. Next, we present you with the clearest signals that will allow you to discover the true intentions of that girl. Play with you? Does he love you? In the following lines you will discover ...
You are not the only one in your life ...
If the case is that the woman with whom you leave tells you that she is confused in relation to her feelings towards you. In addition, he does not stop seeing his ex and makes it clear that he has a complicated love life. Then, you must keep in mind that you are not the only one in your life.
Similarly, if you know that you have another relationship, but still does not stop seeing you or calling you. So, you have no future with her. Surely she will tell you that she is not happy in her relationship, that things with her boyfriend go very badly and that it is a relationship that will end sooner or later. If that is the case, do not be fooled.
If you are not sure that you will stay by your side in the right way. You must know how to identify the serial infidels and the best thing in these cases is to get away. It is not worth being part of love triangles where no one will benefit. And the safest thing is that you end up hurt.
She takes too much care of her space ...
We all need our space. However, it is not normal for that space to be so jealously protected. If it turns out that the girl you're dating is a mysterious woman and you do not know her more than what she shows you or says. Then, something is not right.
In a relationship respecting the space of each person is fundamental, but this in turn is also shared in some way.
If you do not know your girl's family and there is always an excuse for her, maybe she does not want you to know her. Also, if you barely know about your friends and you are not part of their social circle, you may not want to show them. They are signs of what happens to you.
Completely excluding yourself from your life is not normal. You must analyze the situations if you experience any of these signals. Perhaps it is convenient to ask yourself if it is worthwhile to be with someone who seems to hide from others.
She never says that you are her boyfriend ...
Although for you it is the woman of your life and to all you make it known. It does not mean that it is the same for her. If you are with that girl who, when you present her, only says your name or uses the adjective "friend", then something is very wrong. In the intimacy it seems that they are dating and have a relationship, but before the world you may not be more than a friend.
If at the time of talking about you, he never mentions you as his boyfriend is because he does not consider you as such. She does not feel comfortable with you or does not care that others know she has a relationship with you. It is hard to recognize, but if this is your case, think twice before continuing with the situation.
She has no respect for you ...
From the fact of flirting with other guys in front of you, to the use of hurtful words and rude attitudes, they can be a sign that he does not respect you at all. The lack of consideration is a clear signal that you do not care about that person.
It is inconceivable to support these attitudes. In these cases, the best thing you can do is to terminate the relationship. There is no future where respect does not exist. Consideration and kindness are key to maintaining a relationship.
If all these signs are presented in your relationship, then you have two options. The first, get away and look for other ways away from that girl who does not care about you. And the second one, use your head and put aside your heart. Everything will depend on you.
I was trying a plagarism checker, i didt copy but ill add some sources that apears on the plagarism checker:
Sources
Forbes article
Sam Smit song
https://genius.com/Sam-smith-im-not-the-only-one-lyrics
Bustle