I read the questions above and I dunno do they give you the answer that you were looking for . It’s all very pc. I take it your the more active of the two otherwise the question wouldn’t be asked. But no one is putting a figure on it but there’s nothing worse than being backed up so to speak so I’d say a good seeing to every once a week is the least. Every night is too much to be asking . Twice or three times is probably above average for most couples. If you are not happy , have a chat otherwise you may end up roaming at worst and Pornhub at best! Nothing wrong with a bit of Pornhub either