I'm going to assume that the thumbnail of a monkey with headphones on indicates satire. :-D
The subject is very topical. I've heard the phrase used in a serious context. It deserves its own feminine version. Perhaps we should all sing a song about 'Slutty Femininity' and see how well that catches on?
Don't like the sound of that phrase? That is about how I feel about 'Toxic Masculinity'.
It obfuscates and confuses. It is a tool to control and subvert the individual.
True, I agree.