It's hard to move on

It's hard to move on, it's hard to let go of memories about the past, it's hard to forget about the ex that hurts so much. Is this all the effects of heartache that has gone awry and a sense of disappointment that is not deaf? No!

Because it is so painful no matter what your past, whatever cruelty he has injured you, if you want to soften your heart menglaslaskan, forgive, and forget about it then surely your thoughts about him will no longer appear

Then the biggest answer when you are hard to move on from the past, it's because you don't want to let it go and forgive it.

Because the mind that cannot escape from the past is a sign that you have not been sincere, the mind that keeps on remembering the pain of the past is proof that you still don't really want to let go.

Try releasing it seriously, it's hard? If it is difficult to work, because it is not easy to express it and indeed it takes hard work to train the heart endlessly with a sense of resignation.

Maybe some of you also often ask, why does the heart feel so painful when remembering the past, even though the separation was long? So the answer is that you can't forgive him.

Because just try your heart to forgive, then surely when remembering him and his mistakes you certainly will not feel pain, because the pain of the past that is often torturing is a sign that you cannot forgive him.

A heart that you always complain of being tormented when remembering your ex, even though your breakup is a long time ago, and even you yourself have never been in contact with it again, that is proof that you still do not fully believe in Allah's destiny.

And the heart that always condemns badly when remembering the past is proof that you don't believe that a better person will come to you later.

Because whatever way he left you, if you always know how to wish the best and trust God's goodness, then surely forgetting is not difficult.

For that, if it is true you do not want your mind always focused on your past, do not want your mind to be filled with painful feelings of revenge, then try to learn to soften your heart with sincerity and forgiveness.

Because when your heart is truly sincere and forgiving, then surely your memory of it will slowly fade and then disappear.