The Best Motivator Is Yourself
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Hello successful People!
Motivation is an encouragement or a change of energy in a person which is characterized by the onset of feelings and reactions to achieve the goal. That is, in this life we will always need the motivation to do various things in reaching our goals.
Motivation is divided into many different forms, there are people who are enthusiastic and motivated because of the money, there are also because of the praise, there are also who want to share the benefits and goodness. It could be people are motivated because they want to follow the achievement of a person that he likes for example want to be like Mark Zuckerberg.
Usually, people who are always motivated will continuously strive to step even ran for the pursuit of his ideals. Unfortunately it turns out that motivation sometimes is not present in us. Finally timbulah the negative things in everyday life, such as feeling lazy, sad, afraid, feel not able and a variety of other negative things. So we need a Motivator in our lives.
We know the a variety of motivators that can cause the spirit of motivation in yourself with a variety of semiar and training. The question is how long his motivation will arise in us? Do forever? Only for a moment instead. Well, then who is the best Motivator that will always be able to motivate us all the time?
If you're upset, for example because of love, is usually what is done? Involuntarily, usually we will seek motivation from a variety of motivators around us. There is a vent with a friend and expect to get a solution, there is also a vent on twitter with the hope anyone noticing. When we met with our friend, then confide in tell the feeling galau gundah gulana us to him. Then our friend will usually suddenly thoughtful and said, "never mind, I'm sure lo pantes get better". Then suddenly arose the motivation and spirit to move on.
When finished the vent, there is usually a feeling of relief. But of course, our friend can't ever present the us. When he came home or part with us. Whether that motivation alive? It turns out starts to fade and disappear, finally galau lagi. Because want to get a feeling of relief again, usually vent continues on the phone. Finished the phone, feeling relieved. One minute, two minutes, ten minutes, feeling galau re-appear. Finally the various ways we do to get motivation from our friend's and still not make our hearts completely calm. Actually even makes us addicted to continue to confide widened everywhere, but don't really provide a solution.
Then, if we only rely on motivation from outside, while the us is still upset that only will be able to motivate us some time alone. However, if the motivation was really to come up from within yourself. Then whenever we are sad, upset, depressed, we can motivate ourselves whenever we want. Because the Best Motivator is Ourselves.
Remember, the best motivator is yourself!
Best Regards
Riza