RELATIONSHIP TIPS ; WHAT HER HEART IS SAYING!

A famous clothing line has a cliche that goes,'Its beautiful to be a Woman'. I have adopted that phrase as well and I can say it with understanding because I know what it means and takes to be a woman since I'm one myself.

I have found that when it comes to men having to understand women emotionally, there tends to be a little problem. You hear men say women are difficult to understand. They complain that they just want it all ... on and on they go.

By nature, women were created to be emotional beings. They are love seekers, unlike their male counterparts who are just the opposite in their makeup.

Men are naturally logical. The Creator designed them to be love givers. One attribute that I encourage men to have towards their women is that of being sensitive. Sensitivity is about having to understand feelings. it requires a level of maturity. As women, the sensitivity of our men appeals to our emotions a great deal.

It's like having something up your sleeves and though you haven't said anything about it, he reads your reaction and gets it done. For me it's like the gift of the word of wisdom, being able to see into the future and foretelling it.

If King David could be amazed by the wisdom (sensitivity) of Abigail which refrained him from executing his plans, then I can only imagine how great the effect would have been if it were the other way round.

Here are some of a woman's desires that her lips won't utter but she would so appreciate when her man searches them out.

• 1) When she ignores you, she really wants to get your attention.

• 2) When she pushes you away, she expects you to pull her even closer.

• 3) When she dresses up and asks you how she looks, she wants you to tell her how beautiful she is.

• 4) When she's angry and reacting, she wants you to be calm, to listen to her and to tell her you love her.

• 5) When she says she loves you, she expects you to reply that you love her much more (not I love you too).

• 6) When she's got a troubled face, ask her what the problem is and just listen to her.

• 7) When you tell her you love her, she would appreciate some gestures to follow.

• 8) When she says she doesn't like surprises,she actually does especially out-of-this-world kind of surprises.

• These are just a few bottled up inside her. It takes a man of foresight and who's sensitive to understand what his lady needs. Men should learn to know what their women desire and bring it into light before she even says it.

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