ANGER

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You just punched your friend again after you promised her the last time that you will never do that again. You threw your newly bought IPhone8 to the wall after you threw your Samsung galaxy S6 inside the water some weeks ago and approximately it’s the 3rd phone you are buying this month. You broke your boyfriend’s vehicle’s windscreen because you saw another woman in the vehicle whom you didn’t know was his boss and was just planning to make your boyfriend the managing director.
And after doing all these you still say it’s not you, it is the devil’s hand work. If you don’t know, the devil can only do his handwork in a workshop which you have made yourself available. But what actually makes you do all these is yourself because your anger is part of you; it’s what makes us human and inhuman at the same time. Every human have the right to get angry but when you keep getting angry you become inhuman, you know why? Let me tell you.
Anger rumples the face, and squeezes it totally, you eye balls becomes red and you sweat profusely, you breath harnestly like a lion who just missed its prey, you can’t see anyone anymore not every your loved ones, they shout your name to calm down but it seems they are whispering and you can’t hear them properly. Three men hold you back but you still prove stronger than them, they had to increase in number before they could hold you down. The only thought on your mind and the voice you hear from inside keeps saying “destroy! Damage!! Harm!!!”, at that instant you forget your ambition, your bright future and the lovable memories you share with everyone. After all these you still believe you are human? That your beautiful human face just looked like that of a wild animal and you still call yourself human.
There you go again, saying it’s not your fault, please tell me, it’s whose fault? Who just got angry and destroyed everything again? Albert Einstein said “if you keep judging a fish by its ability to climb a tree it will spend all his life believing it is stupid”. This quote doesn’t just apply to intelligence. “If you keep judging your misconducts by its ability to be triggered and not caused by you. You will spend all your life believing it is not your fault”.
That extreme feeling of great displeasure or annoyance usually brought on by some real or perceived injustice or injury etc. is called ANGER and it is part of you. In fact it is you.
What is the point in getting angry when you always eventually destroy things and aggravate matters? Let you ranger boil inside you quietly and reasonably and not pour out to your entire body. Anger just like every other feeling last for some moments and ide off, so you can always try to hold it in a little longer than you used to do until it disappears, try to remember thing that makes you happy and if what is getting you angry presently is still in that environment, just leave there.
Never let your anger control you, learn to control it. Your anger has neither brain nor heart but you do. Your anger doesn’t know anything about the person you are fighting with presently but you do, the good time you have spent together, the jokes, love, care and attention you shared, all these will be blocked by your anger and make your friend appear like your enemy, these happen when your anger is out of control.

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