Tips for having a great life and being successful. PART II

On this post, I will be writing about other tips for having a great life and being successful. Here are some tips I will be writing on:

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Speak with confidence

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Speaking with confidence is a key factor in life, this is one secret people don't really know. When you speak with confidence people tend to listen and believe, even though you are very wrong. Well, this is something I have done severely and it has worked. The most important thing to do is to believe in your self and stand up tall.

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Know your friends

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Now, this is my best part we all are allowed to have more than just one friend but its advised not to keep too much just for the fact that you may not be able to handle them or be in good contact together.

What do I really mean by the term "Know your friends" now by knowing your friends it will help you associate better with them helping you to be just the person they need. Friendship is a lot deeper than what most people think, it's a bond that binds two or more people together in so many aspects.

Knowing your friends and your friends know you as well will help build you better for it's your friends that will always stand in for you when you down or in trouble.

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Know your enemies better.

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Keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer

This is a very known saying from the movie "Blade", this saying is 100% correct and I will explain why. First, who is an enemy?

An enemy or a foe is an individual or a group that is seen as forcefully adverse or threatening. The concept of an enemy has been observed to be "basic for both individuals and communities".
Wikipedia.

But I define an enemy as on who will go any length to see you don't progress and will do anything possible to harm you be it mentally, emotionally or psychologically in every way possible.

So the question on your lips will be "how will knowing my enemy make me a success in life?"

By knowing your enemies, that alone will give you an edge over them. This will make you ready for anything, also giving you a head start over them in every way only if you are smart for you cannot attack an enemy you don't know and can't see.

This has really helped me in many was, a little secret knowing your enemy is one for they will always come as a friend so once you can sport them please don't do anything that will make them know you have them but keep being friends with them and feed them with false information so they look in the wrong direction while you make your move.
That is why the saying goes "KEEP YOUR FRIENDS CLOSE BUT KEEP YOUR ENEMY CLOSER".

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Take the stairs

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This is a well know fact to success if you want to make it big in life or to be successful you just have to take the stairs and by this, I mean facing the hardship and the challenges in front of you for there is no shortcut to success in life.

As a steemian I think this is most important to you, you just have to face the challenges in front of you and not giving up. Not been heard on the platform is one of the biggest challenges faced on the platform. This is one of the biggest if not the biggest challenge faced by steemians all over the world for if you are not heard you can't be known and when that happens you end up being frustrated and give up the steem race.

So how do you take the stairs, you can do that by research and implement what you find from your research. just like steemit you carry out your research by communication with older steemians way above you, though they might not reply you that does not mean you should stop keep communicating with others and one day you will get the answers you desire after that you don't just sit down with it but you implement it and let it work out as you have planned.