No Longer Poor: Showing you Relationship characters that help you to succeed one at a time
Today i want to quickly show you what Loyalty really is and how you can use it to your advantage. In fact, you must use it to your advantage. Loyalty is one of the characters I've exposed in my book which is due by March this year. I will send out the link to buy the book by then so that you can have the full grasp of the stories i have used to underscore my theories.
One of the things you will learn in this book is that If you want to succeed or grow from poor to rich, then your obligations must be centered on your goal in life. And that the value you place on yourself or your goal must determine where your loyalty lies. If it directs your moral, legal, or religious impetus to your obligation, that’s where your loyalty must lie. Your focus must be your goal per time, that’s where your loyalty is required in order to be better in life. Loyalty is not about a blind trust or support to somebody or a course simply because of ethnic or religious affiliations.
Loyalty is not just about supporting families irrespective of the circumstances. You have loyalty when you feel like there is a sense of urgency or importance for you to do something. It is a state of being under a moral or legal duty to do something. And sometimes loyalty can be as a result of gratitude owed to somebody or an authority.
For example, People remain loyal to their bosses because of some certain favors they have received from them over time while some others remain loyal to them because of career opportunities and growth which are mostly in their hands.
The value you place on yourself or your goal determines where your loyalty lies; at least that’s how I think it should be. Your Loyalty should be consequent on your value. Your value systems therefore will form the placement of your loyalty. The question you need to ask yourself about people when you see them place their loyalty on a person or a course is their value system. That is what can give you a good judgment about their obligations.
You are responsible for your own growth in life; your obligations and decisions must reflect that you are working at your growth rather than undoing your motion in life. One of the determinants to show that you are making any progress is loyalty.
You must know that the loyalty issue is an element of a relationship mix and there is no way you can completely extract yourself from its cleaving. The guiding principle as I have noted here is your value system. As long as your loyalty is in the place of your value system and your goal in life then you should be comfortable with your decisions.
Do you know your obligation as a person? Are you a parent? Are you a student? Where do you think your obligation should lie?