Choose your words.

Do you know your words carry the potency to either make and a individual great or bring an individual to total disrepute?

The right words when spoken to an average person can bring the average mind from average to excellence. When words are properly used, it has a way of propelling the individual for a right course of action.

My simple analogy of one of the reasons why military personnel never backs away from danger but help the civilians in danger is the words spoken to them concerning danger, words are fired into military personnel that they become fearless resilient and tough and never back down from danger.

In the journey to success, the choice of words can be the reason why some people will be successful and some will be failures.

The success coach teaches that right choice of words can build success. Coaches uses positive words frequently as an affirmation to be able to achieve a certain level of success for example the use of some of these phrases.

I am a success.

I am doing better in all my endeavors.

I'm prospering on every side.

Opportunities are daily opened to me.

When success coach use words like they give a particular period sometimes it could even be about hundred days, to be able to change the individual minds attuned with the right words.

"Right words serve as a channel to the successful life."

Just as the right words are powerful and can effectively cause a paradigm shift in the life of an individual the wrong words can also bring down someone from the level of effectiveness to a level where an individual lives below its optimum level of productivity, because the right words are not spoken.

Examples have shown that children that where tenderly nurtured with kind words and under carefully selected choice of words will ultimately take on the character of the words that are spoken to them.

The use of wrong words could make marriages disengage, homes broken, relationship shattered, or even communication go sour, just the same way a well-spoken word can calm a raging anger and reverse all the ills stated in this paragraph.

Even the holy books declare that soft answer turn away wrath.

Checks for choice of words.

1. Are these words right or true.

2. Is this the right time to say this?

3. What are the implications of these words?

4. Are these words properly said?

5. Are this words kind?

While individuals, organizations and Nations understand the use of words is crucial they train people who speak on their behalf because of the understanding that words that are wrongly spoken can has the potential to mar business for an organization or start up misunderstanding between Nations resulting to wars.

The story!

A teacher had a young student who did very poorly in mathematics and because of His performance called him dull from henceforth the child's level of performance dropped lower than before until it even began to affect him in other subject after the end of term the young boy was promoted on trial.

In his new class the subject teacher for mathematics came up with a slogan "mathematics is cheap" soon the class got used to the words and it became a regular anthem until it dawned on all of them that everyone in the class became fond of mathematics and did very excellently in the subject.

In summary what changed was the words that where spoken to the students that offered the subject.

In life if we must succeed, we must carefully choose our words and ensure that we speak positively, do well to think before answering and finally consider the effect of our words on others.

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