Do You Always Reap What You Sow
Many times, we can't envision having sown the same thing as the harvest, thus I get asked this question. This harvest is governed by an unchangeable law, so the answer is always yes. This is the rule of return or CAUSE AND EFFECT.
Many doubt "always" because they think the same acts bring the crop. To completely comprehend this law, remember that it acts on our mindset (fears, accusations, beliefs, etc.) not our actions.
She must determine her son's intent when she finds the situation that prompted this judgement. She may learn that she did not mean to hurt the other person. She may have wished to protect him, taught him a lesson to improve, or communicate her limits. By recognising her intention, she may accept herself and the other.
If she can't find a scenario where her son judged or accused her, she must ask him. He doesn't want to talk to her anymore, but if she phones or writes to him that she's working on her to find out what she's sown, he'll be more open to meeting or talking to her.
Most importantly, his mother must not accuse him. He must sense that she accepts full responsibility and recognises that the tough situation between them is a harvest of her own seeds.
Finding the harvest is easier with another person in the challenging scenario. Situations that are unpleasant but do not involve another person demand more internalisation.
Consider a man who has been financially secure for years but is nearing bankruptcy. To reap what he sows, he must comprehend what he did to attract it. Was poverty his fear? Did he work hard to succeed to avoid judgement?
Was he solely worth money? This example shows that he wanted to avoid poverty and judgement. We get what we sow since the subconscious only trusts pictures from our ideas, beliefs, and deeds, not negative words.
Why constantly harvest this way? Because to be happy and at peace, we must learn to appreciate all situations and accept them without judgement. We must learn to sort through all our experiences to find what is most clever for us.
Perfectly intelligent is our inner God. He wants to help us notice everything we don't like about ourselves, not punish us. We harvest it through unpleasant situations, and once we embrace ourselves and others, it couldn't be experienced the same way again.
The mother in the two situations above did not accept herself as stubborn, haughty, ungrateful, and selfish. As humans with constraints, accepting ourselves means allowing ourselves to be who we are at every moment. This is the only way she can become what she wants. In the second scenario, this individual did not accept poverty or value himself beyond money. This type of man also struggles to accept these tendencies in others.
If you reap a painful scenario and can't find the seed, it probably came from another life. Accepting your situation and yourself is the best way to attain harmony.
In conclusion, the harvest always helps us understand what is going deep within us and whether certain ways of being are welcomed. You'll be amazed to find that accepting yourself attracts more happiness and harmony. Acceptance is crucial!