What is Stopping Your Happiness?

I have realized that a lot of people who are unhappy in life usually have a reason for not being happy, their state of unhappiness or sadness is usually attached to something.

The truth be told,
Some of the reasons why some individuals are usually not happy is a serious one and when we hear them we cannot but feel sad for them and wish that life was a little bit more fair to them.

Some set of individuals tell themselves that they will become happy when they get married, or when they have children, some will even say they will become happy after they have graduated from school.

But wait for a moment and think,
What if the graduation, marriage or the much anticipated job never comes through, does that mean you will stay unhappy forever?

I know that sometimes life can be really unfair to us, but our decision to attach our happiness to the things we are expecting could make us remain unhappy forever.
So, dear friend let your happiness come from within and do not attach them to the material things that might never come.

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