Be Ready.
Marriage requires a lot of effort from you, just as any relationship too. It requires a lot of sacrifice and commitment. You don’t need to go into it when you are not ready. Don’t feel pressured by the social media in-laws or the dictates of the society or your parents. No one will be in it with you, so you might as well be sure you are ready before joining the ship. Once you sail, always remember there should be no turning back.
A lot of people go into relationships or marriage with an exit strategy in mind. That would never allow you to give your best because you wouldn’t even be able to withstand the tiniest of pressure since you are ever ready to jump the ship.
Why would you raise another person’s hope, put their lives on the line, and shatter their heart because you were pressured into a relationship or marriage and you are not convinced yourself? If you think you don’t owe yourself that much to care about the resulting effect on your life and future, at least be concerned for the other person; your partner.
Never rush into a relationship or marriage. It is not for babies and you need to learn to show commitment when you are in one. You will sacrifice a lot and don’t forget that it should be mutual. Set the pace for your partner; show him or her how it should be done because he or she might never know. It requires a lot of patience but you must see the willingness on the part of your spouse too. A lot of people don’t know how to show love and you can’t blame them because we all have different backgrounds. We have different upbringing, different exposures, and different perspectives so you need to understand your partner and communicate your feelings. You can never overemphasize the importance of communication in a relationship or marriage. Communication is vital.
Age doesn’t confer maturity. Like I always say, because you speak Latin doesn’t mean you know how to speak, and because you took a vow doesn’t mean you know how to talk. You might be cute but that doesn’t make you funny. You might be older but that doesn’t confer on you the right to be married. I have seen way older people who do things that are unheard of. I have seen someone younger handle a marriage better than the older person. Maturity is never by age. You grow into it.
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
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Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
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A very good post, its exactly what I've be pondering on, , I think its worth waiting a while!
That gladdens my heart. Thank you.
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Amen. Thanks a lot, my married friend hahahaha. How have you been?
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Marriage is taking you from us hahaha. Hope those wonderful twins are kicking?