Be grateful but don't stop there.

in #motivation6 years ago

Some people after helping you in a way or the other will feel as if they are your mini god and want to control every aspect of your living, and those that are also short sighted will let them be and depend on their directives to walk the journey of life.....That's not right!!!

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I'm not saying you shouldn't be grateful to them [not at all], but what I'm saying is that don't let them be the decision makers that will always navigate your path!!! Because if that is the case then you might not proceed in life and your living will be limited to their own standards and what they will achieve in life.

You must understand that the fact that he's the one that help and lift you up to your present position doesn't make him superior to you, as a matter of fact you might have more things to offer than him but when you already limit yourself then you can never attain your destined greatness.

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Helping you is like fulfilling a prophecy so be grateful and look forward, more lands are still before you to be conquer and you are the only planner that can determine how you want your tomorrow to be!!! Not the guy that helped you on Saturday (yesterday) or the one that advice you on Wednesday....It's only you!!!

Any helper that's delaying your next step should be stylishly drop to the bench because the fact that he is a step in your success ladder doesn't make him the last step, in fact there might be hundreds of steps that are still ahead.... @nuges.

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You are right on spot. We must be dependent on ourselves instead of looking to others to fulfill our needs.

Nice post...They helped us and we are grateful. However this time we just have to do it ourselves...Thanks for the lessons...

Thanks for the lessons

Nice post

Gratitude helps build strong relationships, we should not take being grateful lightly. It helps you even more than your benefactor. Please try and read my next blog post about my opinion on gratitude as i have exposed in my coming book No Longer Poor.

Thank you for pointing out that we must not however count our benefactor as thin gods. It can be demoralising.

Enjoy my upvote!

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