Success takes time (+Learning)

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Since we are born, walls begin to appear everywhere, they are not visible to the human eye, but they are there around us. Being part of our lives, obviously, we do not know that they are there, until we come to adolescence, and we begin to have knowledge of what it is and because there is such a wall. At first, we doubt their existence, but in time we realize that truly if it exists. 

One thing we must always recognize is destiny, regardless of what we do, we will end up being what life has prepared for us. Believe me I do not speak of religion, I talk about when we are children we have dreams, when we get to adolescence we have dreams and goals, but often happens that when we get to adulthood, many of those dreams and goals of the past, It doesn't have much to do with what we really want to be.

One can say that in time we find our true vocation, and consequently our true destiny, that we obviously do not know what will be. We're always on the lookout for what can happen. Now, all goals are fulfilled and somehow has a degree of difficulty, which always makes us doubt the possibility that we can achieve it, that certainly is a mental test and even physical, which requires a lot of determination to move forward, not only successful way but firm. 

You will wonder as you read this article because I speak of walls that must be torn down? In essence, I speak of the problems that we have to face and that almost always appear unexpectedly, where our strength is tested, to see if we are really able to give the next step to the goal that we have set ourselves. As I said before, the destination is always there, present around us, and not playing against us, as we can sometimes see when something does not go well, that we are usually prone to look for guilt everywhere. 

When the others really do not have so much influence on our successes or in our failures, it may be that some situations are decisive, but not at all, those responsible for the good and bad of our lives, we are ourselves, so we must stop seeing others as responsible for our problems. It is essential to learn that, to really learn that life, is a rise and fall of emotions, which can sometimes lead to the highest and produce naivety because we already believe that we have the life fixed, It can lead us to the lowest and to produce negativity, making you think we can't get out of there. Yes, life can become extremely complex. 

Beyond all this, if we can come to depend on several factors, which can prevent us from achieving what we want, and can be of different nature, social, cultural, among others. Everything must be aligned so that the road is not so tortuous, and we fall into despair, that gives us nothing, and believes that fate plays an essential role, on our way to what we want and does not let us sleep. 

Regardless of the above, the walls that are and that sometimes we place ourselves can be demolished at any time. All of that will depend exclusively on you. 

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