Personal relationships: How to Say goodbye

in #motivation7 years ago

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Being in love is a wonderful feeling, knowing someone who shares the same tastes, the same ideas and has the same desire to move forward. Not only is the physicist really, a person needs more than that, he needs attention, let him know that there is no one like him or her, that at the same time make you feel a special person and that in any circumstance will be with you. 

In the course of a relationship, there will be problems everywhere, where differences can be marked a lot, where jealousy begins to appear, however you want to control it, is very difficult, because when you love someone so much, what you want to do is lose it. You do everything possible for it not to happen, but your jealousy is still there, tormenting day and night, falling even in a state of paranoia, not knowing what he does when he is not with you, and if the person you love is true to you, but mainly your feelings. 

Unfortunately, in our present society, we have lost much that of loving, of being a retailer, not just for an economic issue, but we have become a very liberal society. That there's nothing wrong with it, the truth, but I feel that we lose much more, some think that falling in love is something stupid and meaningless, but really not, falling in love is part of us, the essence of the human being, in the past we have not succeeded in love, It does not mean that this does not exist, so we cannot draw any hasty conclusions. 

There is a moment in love, that we have to say enough, there are situations that lead to strong discussions that are escalating with time, and that's become irreconcilable differences, which unfortunately makes everything very difficult. Although one tries to look for solutions to try to fix things, but sometimes, it is best to leave and understand that that relationship was not for you, and that I was leaving more negative things than positive. 

Now, one is always with mixed feelings in our heads, which make us doubt, if we are really doing the right thing, if it really is the right decision, but, above all, if we can repent in the future by letting go of that person who We love with all our hearts. They are feelings that make us doubt, if it is what we really want, because what happens is that, when we make hasty decisions, without taking into consideration all the good and bad things of the relationship, we can incur to make the wrong decision. 

Some not to say most people, we make that mistake of not thinking things through, and I mean the people who really are worth it, of the people we really love. But that certain situations make us doubt, if it really suits us or it is better to leave it there, it is an extremely difficult decision, but in many circumstances it is necessary, to continue advancing as people. We cannot also think, that we will not be anyone, because that person is not by our side, we have to understand, that the world arrived alone and without a partner, and that we leave this life also alone. 

Although it would be special, to leave this life, seeing that person you love, who shared with you, who lived adventures, who did not care for your bad times, I accompany you and that made you better. These are things that will make you see life differently, I think, none of us, we would like to die alone, without that necessary company, that apart from being your partner, is your best friend.

In conclusion, we must think a lot, we must put everything on a scale, that allows us to make an appropriate decision for you and your partner, “Nothing is perfect, but we can always do better”. 

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It can be tough but sometimes it is for the best.

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An intense post my friend, I was impressed.

lol ... upvoted nd motivated .
good bye..

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