Sometimes we tend to take a friend’s problem for granted, taking his problem as not of concern or just simple issue to solve. Perhaps, we do not even consider his effort and realize that among thousands friends, we may be the only ones selected. I do regard it as a result of a close relationship between particular people and an act of trust towards that particular friend.

The funny fact is that the listener doesn’t really realize it and may be criticize and not provide solution to that issue of concern.
These issues could be financially related or family issues, personal, social and even moral encouragement. The point is always too not neglect afriend concern.

Look at this scenario.

Living in an environment with a broke friend either at campus. We all know how different students are. Some could be well financially, others are really poor and well known by everyone. They are the songs of the day and always criticised by their particular friends. These are the people who always disappear when lunch time reaches or else bring unjustifiable reasons of which they can’t meet with others during supper or breakfast. Most time, students do not consider these types of people and if the guy has a spoiled shoe, smelling or may be having few clothes counted by everyone. Some students prefer giving them names as “the green shirt guy or the ….” This looks funny for some but painful to the person of concern.

The person sees it from far and create a distance, looking at someone who can easily understand him or her. This brinngs the idea of selection and the ideal of isolation. No one wishes to be alon while doing nothing. We all need friends who care, laugh and enjoy time with us. Some people prefer kidding their homes, hoslels since they can’t stand among their friends. These are all natural and only the genious will realize it. When the poor cries, the rich laughs but everything is just temporal. A problem looks permanent but with time it becomes temporal.

How do you respond to an isolated person?

The fact that a person is isolated, this means that the person has a feeling of emptiness and the spirit of rejection. Rejection does not only appear in family, but also among friends, at work or in any other team. This instantly brings the idea of separation and building his/her own life far away from the friends perspectives and views which could be good for some but worse for others. In other words, a rejected person may work had to reach a particular level but also could feel distant from others and react as an orphan smelling his death and may be fall in suicide, laziness and thus living a life with no purpose.

The best way to respond to that particular person is first, by approaching him , viewing the person’s life, and then making his problem as part of yours. When a person understands that actually what that person face could happen to him, this could bring the spirit of compassion and love among people. Approaching an isolated person will bring intense sense to the person. This person will really feel that atleast people care about him and he could achieve a step towards greatness. This is more than a gift to someone, having the spirit of understanding will always awaken the person but always teach immense lessons not only to the rejected but also to the other person.

I do not know IIf at once we ever tried to solve real problems.

Did you know that you can save a friend? You can provide a solution to his problem and bring joy?

Well, life has a number of challenges and we all are called to encourage each other, living in a world of love and care. How would you respond if your friend is pregnant? Lost his properties? Failed at campus? Or else need financial assistance. Do you really understand the reason of reciting a particular issue to only you or a few people. This actually shows that person believe you can do something to his life. You can provide a solution. We do not have any reason to be quiet on people’s problems and all are called to understand and react in order to solve a particular problem. We may not have money, but organize a fundraising campaign. There are thousands ways of responding to a friend’s problem than just being quite.
If only a few could understand this life, I believe we can cure some lost souls