NO PRESSURE

Yay!!! It's a new week and I just wanna drop this here.
This is to all the beautiful ladies out there. I felt the need to reach to every lady in my own little way because well, I've been there and I can say I do know how it feels.

I used to think having a man in my life would automatically fix my problems and love would not mind my excesses so I spent a lot of time looking for love all for the wrong reasons.

When I finally realize that I did not need a man to make me feel good about myself, my perspective about life changed tremendously.

I began focusing on myself. I got myself involved in activities I enjoyed and thank God I was introduced to steemit 😁 at that time, I was able to improve my writing skills. I read news and joined in intellectual conversation thereby knowing people's views on certain issues, I got involved in charity work, I started a small business. Then I started working on my attitude problems.
Putting myself out there meant meeting a lot of people and making friends which I greatly enjoyed.

My focus changed from finding love to improving myself. The effect of which I became comfortable with my company and I figured that loneliness is just a state of the mind.
I got even more comfortable giving myself treats, I began dressing up because I wanted to look good not because I wanted to catch a guy's eye.

In the process of this, I found myself and I just started living....... 😇 and guess what??????
Love found me.

So ladies out there, this new week whether you trying to get that position, or lose that extra pound🤓, don't put yourself under pressure no matter what. Just don't try too hard.

You deserve the best.

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