So many people feel inadequate. They feel the need to measure up and be like others. They want to have the life others have, forgetting their own uniqueness.
Most people see their life through other people's lens. The measure their progress based on how others are faring. Why would you rob yourself of your own uniqueness just because you want to be like another? We are all unique in our own ways and our differences make us rightfully unique and special.
Focus on your strength. Desire to be better. Acquire more experiences, yes, but if you round all your edges, how would you fit into your own square? Why would you become another person that God doesn't need one more of? You are who you are for a purpose. Trust God's masterpiece and that is you!
Have a blessed evening. Yes, I am blessed.