Sometimes, You Do Not Have To Argue About Everything, Just Let It Slide Sometimes.
This is not going to be a long post because I am simply trying to make a point and I will just make it be as simple as possible.
There are times you just have to overlook some things, it is not really necessary to act upon all that happens, there are some things you could just ignore and decide not to talk about anymore.
Yes, I know that there are sometimes you cannot just ignore those things and you really want to talk about, but the truth is that there are times you really have to let it slide.
Constant arguments about somethings could create a big-time issue and that is the most important reason why I advise that you let it slide sometimes.
When you feel that you have to argue about everything to the last, or that you always have to prove some point, then you should know that there is a big issue and you really need to work on yourself and the truth is that it makes people feel you are just a noise maker or someone who unnecessarily likes to talk about everything.
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@gbenga well said...people should understand that the point of argument is not to win it but for you to pass a message...although atimes I do it to feel on top
I guess you just heard people arguing. Actually, I hate arguing, because at the end, no lesson is learnt. When thee is an argument going on, what I do is just to keep quiet or leave the place, especially when it is an argument over football or religion. I just leave.
This was one of the things that caught my notice today when you gave a speech. I still remember the time you came online and gave this advise sometime ago in euronation. I am really pleased to have met you and I can't say how much I feel motivated. God bless you for us sir.
Nice post. Everyone mustn't see things the way we see it so sometimes, we have to let it slide
Well said sir! I believe in letting things slide, this has been my watch 'sentence' for a while now
It takes a higher level of maturity for you let things slide sometimes. Some arguments are aimless and pointless but some are meaningfully. Sometimes you just need to express how you feel inside to the other party, just so he or she could recognize and respect your point of view. Notwithstanding you quite right to some point as silence In an argument speaks a thousand words than you could have ever have said
Argument arise as a means of 2 different people with different ideas who wants to impose there opinion on each other. Sometimes, when d argument get so heated, it turns to something else.. Best thing to avoid conflict is just strolling away ..
But be rest assured, if you are arguing with your girlfriend, even if u enter cupboard to run from her, as long as u started it , it must end with her... 😂
The one with girls with a no go area. They will always win unless you want wahala.
I've come to realize that too.. Too many arguments could make you be tagged as someone who nags.
No matter how difficult it is, just let it go!
I have a first hand experience of this.
True talk sire.. Another thing that causes such is the problem of saying sorry, mos people find it hard to say sorry. Saying sorry doesnt really mean you are at fault, its just for peace to reign.
You are definitely right. I know a lady who would nag all the time over little issues.
Unfortunately for her, her husband divorced her, and she is now very calm, but it is too late