Gaining Confidence In What You Do Makes Things Wonderful and Better For You
Yes, we get involved in some things that do not eventually turn out well, we try our best to put those things together and all that we expect is just a very good and brilliant outcome which sometimes does not look achievable.
Lack of confidence has it's own way of destroying a whole lot of things, no matter how intelligent you think you are.
I just want to list out some things that the absolute lack of confidence could do to you, it could make you lose out on a contract, it could make you lose out in a relationship, lack of confidence can as well destroy what you have been working on for a long time.
There are so many other disastrous things that the lack of confidence could cause, but I think I will just stop here because I could keep on listing what the side effect of lack of confidence will be without stopping.
It does not matter the type of business you are going into, it does not matter what you really want to do, you will need the desirable confidence to achieve vital things in life.
Just imagine that you are a business owner, and you do not have the confidence to stand before the people you are going into partnership with, you should then rest assured that the success of the business is definitely shaky.
Dear friend, I just want you to know that in life generally, confidence is highly required and that is to a very great extent.
To become successful in that business, that job interview and particularly those plans, you need to gain confidence.Stop hiding, be strong, be bold and make your dreams come through.
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good one champ
when you lack confidence, it shows in your dressing, carriage, speech. it reports its self and the result is that people will begin to look down on you.nice one @gbenga
Great point @princessfrank. When we lack confidence it does tend to show up in other aspects of our lives which are visible to others. This can create a self fulfilling prophecy and continue the cycle (no confidence - showing no confidence - being treated with no confidence - still having no confidence).
This is where the saying "fake it until you make it" can be beneficial. Even if we are not confident in ourselves, making our outward appearance and actions confident can mitigate the damage that could otherwise be done. Breaking the cycle somewhere is an important step!
Reson of 90% failure in Life is lack of confidence i.e; I can't do it.Due to lack of confidence, one loses the match before the start. So be confident to face any chalange.
lack of knowledge depicts lack of confident, to acquire more confident, you must seek to know and understand perfectly the pursuit you are embarking on.
confident is a talents and a treasure, it can make you if you have it, and can mar you if you lack it.
thanks for sharing boss
Thanks for sharing this lovely piece of writing.
My first job was a marketer and we were given targets by our employers. Going out to meet people and advertise our product was an herculean task for me because i was shy and i had no confidence. I had to read books from great writers to help me overcome this problem. With constant practice and determination i was able to put my lack of confidence aside.
I'm thrilled. Thanks a lot Mr. Gbenga. Although i'm a fighter. Lol....Not a nuissance, but a person that loves slapping Challenges before they visit infull force. I laways take a leap before the leap itself. But, sometimes ago i lost my confidence, then failures follow. With your Piece, the confidence evolve again. Challenges are in hell once again. Thanks a lot. I really love this write-up.....Keep on making us proud... PROUDLY NIGERIAN
Thanks for sharing @gbenga
I enjoy reading your articles. Thank you so so much. Lack of confidence is a vital problem allot of people face. It may result from low self esteem.
But we must fight to develop confidence in ourselves so we can pursue out dreams and visions.
Thanks for sharing
Well done the motivator of our time. It has been awhile I visit your blog last. I hope you're OK? Happy new year.
Real motivation, they should note that being confidence doesn't mean being bossy or having pride, confidence is like having hope and trust in what you do you may fail but surely rise again
Thanks for this lovely piece. Lack of self confidence can really mare you. My final year project which i did all by my self because it was an unresearched topic but when it came to the defence, i was fidgetting and that was how i lost the points. Try to build your self confidence.
You can try looking at the mirror every day and try motivating yourself by talking to yourself in the mirror
Try to wear good clothes. It builds your elegance and gives you self confidence
smile always