What an amazing wake up call!!
This is exactly what I've learned through meditation and a lot of personal growth work. And what I always tell people around me. We decide what our life will be like and wether we are victims of the circumstances or active creators of a fulfilling life! :)

We need to stop living the victim role and complain about how mean and unfair life is. Most people around us complain a lot so it's hard to break free from this and learn to think and act in a different way. But we all have the power to change our mindset and so our life. You can't change your life by blaming others and looking for solutions outside yourself. You need to stay with YOURSELF and change your mind to change your life. Just as you can't brush the hair of your mirror's reflection but only your real hair. What we vibe out, we create. Thoughts become reality. And we decide what this will look and be like! :)

Great post!

Have a nice day and a lot of positive vibes to you! :)

Upvote, resteemed and follow! :) Good job!!