LOVE: WHY WE NEED TO GROW IN LOVE

Love is a beautiful thing but sometimes it hurt,some people have even give up on love because they thought is not real and it doesn't last,you can't love a stranger but you can be attracted to someone, we grow in love,Many relationships and marriages often fail because of how two people grow together. The relationship either grows into love and harmony - or it grows into suspicion, doubt, resentment - eventually leading to a break up or divorce.
Improving our relationship is an ongoing adventure, because a sexy, exciting relationship takes playfulness, creativity, commitment and an open heart.
As a wise man once said you will never reach your full potential if you don’t open your heart.

MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP NUMBER ONE AND BUILD TRUST.
Every relationship requires work, and you have to be willing to commit the needed time and energy to it. So, the first step is to make improving your relationship a priority this year.Honesty and trust are the highest form of intimacy. If you tell a lie once then all your truths can become questionable. When you are honest, you produce honest actions and reactions. If your loved one is truly important to you, they should be a top focus of your time and efforts.

LOVE IS A CONNECTION,NOT AN ATTACHMENT.
The emotion you feel immediately when you see someone is what attachment is born of. It is the idea that they can solve all of your problems and give you the life you’ve always dreamed. On the flip side, a genuine connection based on mutual respect and appreciation is what love is born of.

PLAY TOGETHER.
Being in a serious relationship doesn’t mean you always have to be serious. So have fun together. Studies show that couples who take part in fun activities and laugh together feel closer and more satisfied in the relationship.

COMMUNICATION
Open, honest communication should be part of every healthy relationship.Important conversations shouldn’t be put off, but neither should they be initiated during awkward or inappropriate times. Bringing up bedroom issues during a holiday party is not the best place to have such a discussion.Deep conversations require deep listening. Being honest when you feel angry isn’t easy, but if what you’re saying isn’t true, then nothing real is being shared.Going into a conversation with an agenda may lead to missed opportunities for connection, deeper understanding of your partner, and their reasons for how they approach certain situations.

DON'T EXPECT PERFECTION.
Nobody is perfect, and therefore no relationship is perfect. There will be bumps in the road, but that doesn’t mean you should call it quits or that things would be better if you were with some other, similarly imperfect person. “Constantly visualizing ideal spouses makes you less happy because it creates more potential for unproductive desire or regret,”Be willing to overlook small flaws or minor mistakes.

INTIMACY
One of the most important sentiments of human love is intimacy, because it’s one of the most profound expressions that means, “in-to-me-see.”
Intimacy is being accepting and being vulnerable. Intimacy doesn’t mean falling in love in the conventional sense of romantic infatuation, but emerging in love by understanding what makes you and your partner expand and grow together.

PERFORM RANDOM ACTS OF ROMANCE.
Being romantic has a lot to do with being creative and thoughtful. For example, you can write little love notes to your significant other and leave them in unexpected places where they will eventually be found, such as in a sock drawer, a packed lunch or even in the freezer. Sprinkle such romantic gestures throughout the year to remind your loved one of what they mean to you.

LOVE IS EMOTIONAL COMPATIBILITY, NOT SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY. It’s not what the rom coms would have you believe, but in the relationships that last, you’re best friends more often than you’re lovers. The “swept away” feeling may come and go, but when the foundation is solid enough, it doesn’t really matter either way.
Love is the best thing that can happen to man,he or she need to be loved by you,show them love and i pray as we do so God will help us and bless our relationship
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