In life, to achieve anything great, you are either pushing for something or something else is pushing you. These two push forces are very essential and necessary for a huge leap in life. Our success is solely dependent on our deliberate effort geared towards making things happen in our space and most times at out pace. Being deliberate helps to fashion our dreams into our reality.

Pushing for something

Prior to looking out for something which could be a project, a growth level, a home, an event that could be a leap in one's career, aspirations, family, and affects one's disposition and position generally, steps are necessary to achieve whatever level of success desired.

Organization of ideas is very paramount before steps are often taken. Then, what next?

I hear people say alot of times that actions speak louder than voice. Think about it, when you detest someone or something, your actions suddenly pre-informs the person you don't like him/her even without speaking a word. On the other end, when you love someone, one particular gesture that trace to the fact that makes it obvious that love is present is your disposition towards that person which includes giving gifts, showing compassion, giving your time. Well, pushing for anything in life is also as a result of your like or dislike for the process of achieving that thing in particular. But why become sluggish about your goals even when you have outrightly identified them and you can proof it is where you really wanna be.

To understand what push in this context mean, you need to be three things:

• Be delibrate
• More delibrate
• Even more deliberate

Nothing great ever happens by coincidence. Every outstanding achievement we see today is as a result of intentional efforts by individuals to make these things happen. Think about it, when you are serves a meal on the dining table, and your cutlery is just right beside it, it is most likely that the cutlery will not jump to start feeding you of its own Accord, the cutlery does not even know you are hungry. It simply means until you pick the spoon and start to feed yourself, the spoon is just as useless as any piece of paper. The spoon is at your service when you engage it to work. So many things will need to be deliberately engaged in other for anyone to make the real kind of expectations they have in their hearts. Pushing for something is far the most powerful force for establishing a platform for great success.

Something pushes you

Every car in motion is on a journey and is traveling to a destination. No matter how good your car is, it still needs a motivation, something that pushes it to move from its place of rest. Here the motivation is fuel for the engine. Lol. Except for the new models of car in the nearest future that will drive themselves, we stick to the known which is, every car still needs a driver.

Your dreams and aspirations =

The car

The needed fuel =

The motivating factors which includes your environment, cycle of influence, your friends, your time, your passion and so many others.

And
You are the

DRIVER

The car will only respond to your orders. You must learn to know when to change fears and if possible when to change direction. The summary is everything responds to your orders.

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You might be handicapped in changing the environment, the reason is because there are so many things in the environment and so many controllers but hey, you can create your own environment.

Find a space, do your thing....

The truth is something has to be pushing you to get you on track for all that you are pushing for.

Thanks for reading.