Don't Get In The Middle Of It, Contributed By @Olawalium.
Have you noticed some people just conclude about your life without knowing anything about your story and where you are coming from? It is so funny after someone has been in contact with you for a while; they have this archaic thoughts and formed opinion about your kind of person. I call them those who have internal demons.
A lot of people have internal demons and they try to pass on their frustrations into people’s lives thinking they can feel better when they make other people worse. How wrong can they be? They have a lot of battles within them and when they lash out at you or when they judge you without much thought, just know it is more about them than it is about you. Don’t get in the middle of it.
A lot of people have unresolved issue and they have so much anger bottled right inside them. They look for ways to channel it and they try to see in others what they hate about themselves. What we choose to focus on is what we see. We all have some goodness in us but when we choose to focus on the bad sides, we rob ourselves of the goodness that can come from these people.
When people judge you wrongly, when people lash out at you, when people form an opinion about you without knowing you and when people hate you for no reason at all, don’t hate them, just know they have unresolved issues they are dealing with internally, so don’t get in the middle of it. Don’t feel sad about yourself, just feel sorry for those people because only those who know you, those who feel the same thing you feel can judge you and fortunately, no one has the right to. You can learn to be better and do things better, but no one has the right to play God in your life.
Life will either bless you or bury you. It is not what others say about you that matters but what you say to yourself when they are done talking.
Thank you for your time.
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I love to share all their joys and sorrows
A great article, my friend
Dear @communitycoin sir!
A devil is hiding inside every human being, from which we keep fighting all the life. This devil exists inside us as negative thoughts, jealousy, etc. Negative thoughts dominate us only when our positive thoughts stream weakens.Those who understand our feelings do not need to be trusted him.
That is why when someone does not agree with your words, then understand that negative thoughts on it are dominant. At that time it needs to be sympathetic to him, he needs to increase his courage.regards
Welcome back @olawalium and @communitycoin , infact these people who judge us without any clarification are the part of the community. Sometimes people say those things which goes against of our character. We should not hate them as you said.we just need to ignore them and to move on.
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That is the best thing to do; ignore them. A lot of people judge without having a basis and without understanding your story.
Good one, my friend.
Hahah...a qyick judger can never be a god judge. It happens many a times that people make certain propective about someone within few min of interaction. Earlier i use to think how people are so intelligent that can easily judge someone with the way they walk or they talk.....but slowly i understood that those kind of people are full of self pride and always belove themselves as having the supreme power within to create a view point for anyone. But they do jot undersrand that "pride alwsys kill people" may be its you or may be others.
I usually never give damn to such people but such people never talk in front of you they always prefer to announce their versict from behind the stage....a coward act.
I appreciatr your views @olawalium how easily you come up with such little traits of human beahaviour . I must say you are quite a good observer..who keeps observing difderent people traits.....steem on👍
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I am glad you shared the same view with me and you are also undeterred by these judgy people. They definitely have pride and they intend to spread their unhappiness by making others unhappy too. Shame on them.
Really appreciate your kind words, my friend. Gracias.
Always feel blessed when find someone who have same stands as mine. Its rarely happen that you get such thing happen on some topic.
Glad to know you found it worthful...
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I always enjoy your view and take; absolutely worthy. Thank you so much.