ATTITUDE
Your thoughts determine your action, your action which goes side by side with your attitude which determines how much value people will place on you.
The way you response to an accusation or an insult will determine the value people will place on you.

What is Attitude?

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In psychology, attitude is a psychological construct, a mental and emotional entity that inheres in, or characterizes a person. In English, what they are saying is that; attitude, which is real and exhibited by all humans is both mental and emotional, have the ability to characterise a person or be inherent (inhere).

Attitude is almost always associated with the negative character of a person.
Example: A statement made by John to his friend mark about a girl he just met. John said,"so i met this girl, and as i was about to make my first statement, she gave me an attitude that immediately choked out all the words in me and i stuttered all through till she left." And by the way, I'm not saying it is only girls that gives attitude. Boys do as well, in all our glory. Hahaha!

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It is a 100% positive as it is negative. The way you respond to people matters a lot. Someone once said, "i never say a word whenever I am angry because i won't be able to take it back"

There are people that say this at the peak of their vexation,"don't let me show you the other side of me o." This statement indicates that you have been faking the present side. This is sadly true for some because there are people that are just fake. Their life itself is fake. Beware of those! I am sure most of us had one fake friend or the other at one point in our lives.

Lets have the right attitude towards things.

QUESTIONS

How do you respond to an insult?
Here in Nigeria, most of us will say that there isn't any insult that will piss them off. The reason is because we have gotten so used to it that we even went as far as creating a game where as kids, we will just sit and insult each other till one wins. The only way one will win is if he has been able to insult the other one to the point where the other kid cries, gets up and go home or cries, gets angry and fight. One way or the other, we must have a winner!

How do you respond when angry?
My answer is don't respond at all. What's yours?

How do you treat others that treats you badly?
Do you say," don"t worry, we shall see," then you go to your village to do charm(voodoo) for him/her?

In Nigeria, our attitude sometimes is simply amazing.

How do you want others to see you?

I have tons of other questions but let me stop here.

Let me conclude by saying this, "your attitude determines the kind of value you want to place on yourself"

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