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RE: How a careless teenager turned into a (step)mom - Part Nine - STALKING
That's rediculous! It seems like the CPS is not able to THINK.
I've said it many times... When it's up to the police you DON'T have to have any contact with your perpretator..
When it's up to CPS you're being 'OBSTRUCTIVE' when you're rather not talking to the person who stalked/attacked/raped you..
Yeah, and the reason why he never put his name on their certs is probably because my lawyer told his that she will file for child maintenance, even though I didn't want that (I don't want a dime from him). So dragging all this on us, all the stress it caused, but when he didn't get his way and heard he might have to pay to share the cost of raising them, he bailed. That just showed me he was only doing this in an attempt to hurt me. Luckily the judge saw sense...and knew by all he dragged out in court that this were the reasons for him. He hasn't had contact with them since, even though the judge ordered for him to keep in touch...
Nasty...
Glad the judge was thinking right!
I never got a dime from my ex-husband either...
I had to take a (big!) loan when I was studying to have a minimum income.
He didn't have to pay child-support, because 'he only had a minimum income'
(still A LOT more then I got, but who cares... rules...)
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