A short consideration about a video by psychologist and sexologist Monica Cappello

Psychologist and sexologist Monica Cappello explains premature ejaculation.

Ejaculation is said to be premature when happens before of what is desired.

In cases where premature ejaculation happens too quickly, the man becomes convinced of suffering of this disturb, but precocity’s discourse is not just a matter of time: it is appropriate to concentrate in arousal high levels rather than orgasm rapidity, in order to be able to manage orgasmic inevitability point.

Pressure to perform plays an important role in premature ejaculation: anxiety triggers mechanisms for which a problem occurs in the measure that we would like to avoid it; in this situations, we refer to anticipatory anxiety.

Among the causes of premature ejaculation, we can include the scarce frequency of sexual relationships.

Andrologist can help a person to discover the physiological-organic causes of premature ejaculation, psychologist those psychological; for that purpose, the psychologist-sexologist will go to deepen the past of a person, such as first sexual relationships, self-esteem dynamics, partner clashes; conversations have to focus on anxiety disorders at the base of the disturbance.

Watching to Monica Cappello's video it seemed clear to me that a good relationship with our emotions, relationship skills, self-knowledge and their own partner are essential to live a happy sexual life.

I think that porn movies can contribute to create excessive expectations in regard to sex.