Seeking Arrangements...Would you date a man 20 years your senior?
I'm 19 and I have dated men for money!!!
Like literally I was that girl who dated an older man for money.
I aspired to be a sugar baby and marry the worlds richest white man. Preferably one who was two coughs away from death. Why? Because I wouldn't have to spend the rest pf my life with him duh.
I knew exactly what I wanted. I would be that really chocolaty black girl laying out under the sun Bronzing while my Sugar Daddy showered me in $100 bills. Boy I have quite an imagination.
My thoughts have recently matured seeing as how being a Sugar baby has now gone mainstream and everyone wants to do it. It sort've took the fun out of it. I look at some of these chicks and think.....no.
What caused me to want to become a sugar baby in the first place?
Money.
But no really. I was introduced to the SB/SD lifestyle when I was 17 and I came across this 49 year old man who would give me whatever I wanted. Like literally, he would call me his sugar baby and he would buy me whatever I wanted. I didn't think much of it until I came across a blog on tumblr expressing how to become a sugar baby.
I was in Sugar heaven!
So what did I do?
After extensive research....I created a nice little seeking arrangements page.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6c21e439-59f4-31ce-cd4e-537769d5a12a
^ Literally my SA page.
You have to be sure you rectify that you are a SUGAR BABY not a PROSTITUTE. Alot of people may argue there is no difference....trust me. There is.
I for a while was a platonic SB, meaning I did NOTHING but got EVERYTHING.
Some of these older men only want to be seen with a pretty young girl.
I do not recommend sugaring....to anyone. Why?
Because I'm sick of all these random snot nosed girls thinking they have what it takes to become a proper sugar baby. Go to backpage.
To be a sugar baby is to be a sugar baby to very prestigious men. Doctors, lawyers, artists, etc.
These men want to take you places, all over the world. You have to be diverse and open.
Do I still sugar?
ehhh. I am naturally attracted to older men so that's an ehhh question. Young guys just don't cut it for me....at all. their so gross.
So far sugaring has got me a passport, new shoes, new clothes, and my college PAID OFF!
Yes it has it's perks...nice things. But then you have to deal with kissing an older and probably unattractive man in public.....ew. Like I said it's not for everyone. I have a natural lust (love) for older men in genral...so I'll live.
I don't just search for Sugar daddies....they tend to come to me. I am a sugar daddy magnet ya'll!
Who the hell is complaining. The only way I would stop sugaring is if I find love.
Actual Love.
BUT. Until then
Frankly, you are not alone. There are many who seek money more than anything else. There are men who seek out rich women too, and same applies for some gay women/men as well.
There should be a word for it. Moneyosexual?
Holy hell you just started the next revolution.
And you're a part of it!
if young guys don't cut it for you and old men you kiss for money are gross what exactly are you into?
money.
Money is not everything. In fact, it really is nothing at all. But at least you are honest with them about the situation, which I can respect. If each party agrees, enjoy your arrangement.
I was speaking in general for girls who just wanna jump into it tho.....but im into money...lots of money