Firstly, congrats my fiend and wish nothing but wellness for you and your growing family!! These are very important thoughts and usually when finances start being looked at there are two main areas where money is wasted. The first is food as you noted. The second is needless purchases. A big part in this would be entertainment expenses such as the movies or other outings. We try to do low budget or free family time like nature trails and such. Just my thoughts and thanks for sharing!!