Monetization

Why do the women monetize their sexuality?

Isn't that the same reason why the men feel dominant. You had consexual sex with a man and you expect transport fare which I understand is termed "Have a nice day"?

Why would a girlfriend try hard to snap "hot" selfie because she wants to leverage on it to pluck some money out of her man to buy a handbag. Is anything wrong with asking?

By the time we fix this entitlement mentality and come to the realization that you give away your own powers by adopting annoying habits like the ones mirrored in the scenarios above, we can accord respect to ourselves. You can't expect to be seen as an indispensable fellow or an equal when you reduced yourself to a full time collector.

Men love gifts too. Some probably do not subscribe to receiving gifts from women because the same society has wired them to believing women should be totally dependent on them.

Look, there's absolutely nothing wrong with asking. If you want a handbag, ask. If he wants anything from you, he should ask as well.

Many at times, in the bus with a female friend or acquaintance, men are pressurised to pay (Nonsense pressure) because they feel it is their responsibility. The women keep mute as the Conductor asks for their fare because she's giving the man the chance to do the 'supposed' needful. But what she failed to realize is that she can pay for herself -and there's nothing wrong with that- or she can pay for two if it's her wish.

Men perceive you as powerful when we know you are capable of living the life you want. Trying to be a collector is another way of surrendering to his idea of ownership and declaring your incapablity to him. Some will take advantage of it , many do leverage on that actually.

Since money is the bait, a man believes he can lure any woman. And since most women have "sworn" to follow money, they are trapped and trade their own truths for something meagre.

Men also want to see you pay your bills if we individually came to a restaurant and met at the same table unless otherwise.

If these traits are not checked, the waiters will always give the bills to the man at the table when there are females instead of asking who is going to pay the bills.

Which is another way of saying "power belongs to the men".