The Missionary Position and a Woman's first time: How Perfect?

A woman should have a say on the conditions with which she loses her hymen. The timing, the environment, the nature of penetration, the speed and pressure are all details she should feel comfortable with. Except if her partner is also inexperienced, there is no reason why she should have to lie down like a wood and just take it.

When you hear the phrase ‘missionary position, what comes to your mind is definitely the mummy and daddy style of lovemaking. Yes, that’s exactly what I’m talking about today in relation to how suitable to a woman’s first time.

It is commonly believed that the term missionary position arose in connection with Christian missionaries, who supposedly encouraged the S exual position in new converts in the colonial era. Although there could be an ethical deficit on the part of the Whites for calling our primitive sexual ways bestial and uncivilised, liking us to Barbary apes.

The missionary position or man-on-top position is generally a S ex position in which a woman lies on her back and a man lies on top of her while they face each other and engage in S exual intercourse or other S exual activity.

Practical studies have proved that variations of the position allow varying degrees of vaginal tightness, clitoral stimulation, and depth of penetration, participation on the part of the woman, and the likelihood and speed of orgasm.

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“The missionary position is commonly used the first time a couple have S ex because it (presumably) may be more comfortable to do so.”

The simplicity of the position makes it well-suited to the inexperienced.

On the other hand, some experts advise women to not use the missionary position when having S ex for the first time, stating, “You are not in control, and it will be more painful and you cannot do anything but lay there and take it.” Tarkovsky recommends positions such as woman on top that allow the woman to control the speed and pressure at which she loses her hymen.

A woman should have a say on the conditions with which she loses her hymen. The timing, the environment, the nature of penetration, the speed and pressure are all details she should feel comfortable with. Except if her partner is also inexperienced, there is no reason why she should have to lie down like a wood and just take it.

However, it may not be necessary to completely forgo missionary the first time; Alphonso Sirtle suggests starting with woman on top until the hymen is torn, and then possibly switching to missionary or whatever other position is preferred.

The cultural missionary position – man on top- is argued not to be conducive to romance- if a relationship is based on authoritarian control, keeping one person on top and the other underneath gets old and boring pretty fast – for both partners.

However, the missionary position may not be entirely dull, or maybe its continuous use may be, the perceived benefits will be discussed later here.

Do you like the missionary Position?

To be continued…