Thanks for your help in the community. I am almost a month old here. what you said about posting comments about criticism, my two cents would be to try to be as clear and polite so you do not get misunderstood, I tried posting a constructive criticism on a blog post of a lady with 75 rep, she took it personal and truth be told I was so scared she was going to flag me.
I had to break it down gently so she doesn't get mad, at the end of the day it went well and she liked my comment 0.7 cents, but still its a 50/50 one could meet the wrong person at the wrong time.