IF YOU HAVE THESE HABITS YOU WILL NEVER BECOME SUCCESSFUL

Firstly, Everybody who is reading this ,note down this thing in your mind that you can never become successful by simply copying other people's habits . If these was only the case then success was easy .

I have habit of studying people who do well in life but simultaneously i also study character's who are miserable and unsuccessful in life. I like the concept of trying not to become unsuccessful because success is subjective.

BECAUSE WHAT IS SUCCESS ?
One of my favourite definitions from Bob Dylan , who once said :

"A man is success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between
He does what he wants to do "

You have probably read lots of articles about success and habits of successful people . The problem with these type of articles is that the give you conditional habits .

"Eat 3 eggs with bacon , wash your hair with soybeans , do ten push ups and do your daily affirmations. AT THE SAME TIME . "

Success comes form inside it will give you a hint whisper in your ears ,give you belief a hope to live . Success ful people never get trapped in small things they let go it or overcome it or win it . They never do more struggle if its not there cup of tea, infact they really know what they want to do in life and what is their talent, what they love , they already think they are rich in their minds ,they fake it till they make it ,even the thought of thinking that they will become successful guaranteed is enough for them to achieve success.

Down below is list of habits of unsuccessful people . If you have anyone one of these habits don't worry no one is perfect atleast you will have basic amenities in life like food clothing shelter and may be more but that should be of your own not your parents owned though that is yours indirectly but thats not your success, never ever fool your self , little confusion is still fine , even of you remain unsuccessful no problem there is nothing to loose you still have smile to laugh .

If you will ask me , according to me success is more than this for me, but basic amenities is also success to many people to live happily. But if you have more than one habits from these following habits , you should worry .

If you have more than 3 than definitely you need to change , because no one wants to be unsuccessful.

1 . THEY ARE ALWAYS DISTRACTED :

Don't live your life in the future or past , lost in thoughts and worries . Infact these people are creatively genious as they get easily distracted so they cannot hold worries or sadness for longer times .
We need balance in life remember that, we need creativity with practicality even if you hire a guy to take practical decisions for you to handle your accounts and stuff that means you're successful but this happens with 3 out of 10 people. What about others? Many of them goes into depression as they cannot focus on one things make them literally poor person and really unsuccessful.

1. THEY ONLY TALK THE TALK :

You know what's better than talking about something ? Doing it .

In 2010 Derek Sivers gave a Ted talk called KEEP YOUR GOALS TO YOURSELF , where he presented scientific evidence that talking about your goals is counterproductive.

We see it all the time in social media . "I' am training for marathon ". "I' am starting a business. "

The crazy thing is how people react .They applaud you for announcing something . Let's stop for second : saying you wanted to run marathon and actually running a marathon are two different things , right ?

In your brain , those things are actually not far apart .Derek sivers says :

" When you tell someone your goals and 
   they acknowledge it , psychologists have 
   found that it's called " social reality " . The 
  mind is kind of tripped into feeling that the
  Work is already done.  And then because 
  You've already felt that satisfaction , you're 
  Less  motivated to do the actual hard work 
  necessary " .

Be someone who does things and not just talk about things.

1. THEY HATE EVERYTHING :

They especially hate people that are doing well . Why can't you be happy for other people ? Don't worry , you won't be a pollyanna . You can still be cool and positive.

Give people some love , it won't kill you . They
even hate things that just 'are' . "Ugh , It rained this morning and my hair got all messed up . I hate rain" . Common , really ?

Once in a while it's ok but if you hate everything and everyone you will become alone in life . You will have bad LIFE .

1. THEY PROCRASTINATE :

What's the benefit of putting things off .

There is no benefit in holding yourself back , if you trust yourself that if you will get more time you will do more better work than only you should take more time from the time giver , else there is waste of time for holding your self back always .

Do it now , or do it better later .

1. THEY ARE LAZY :

Never feel like doing anything, always wants to relax ?

We all have been there : Not feeling like going to dinner with your partner , or not going to buy gifts on your father/ mother birthday. It's all because you are lazy .

Be like a sports person get off your couch participate with your friends, have social life , don't be introvert if you can't be extrovert be atleast ambivert . The beauty of life lies in new and novel experiences.

Go out and build something. Give yourself a chance to experience new things.

6 . THEY DON'T LEARN :

Learning is one of the most difficult thing in the world . It's not a surprise many people never read books novel not even newspapers. Never finish their school. Never learn from their mistakes . Learning is a struggle.

In the past if your dad is a farmer you will become farmer , but now time is different things have changed . people have choices.

You can be anything you wish all you need to do learning, study the process how to achieve that level .

1. THEY ARE QUITTERS :

I saved the worst for last . If there's one thing you can take from this article . I hope it's this Thomas Edison quote :

  " Our greatest weakness lies in giving up . 
     The most certain way to succeed is always 
        to try just one more time. " 

Actually , there is NEVER GIVE UP.

Thankyou

A Bro HUG

@zore .

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