Everything you say is true. I'm very lucky to know you and read your post. say try to implement what I've read. of course with improvisation as needed.
Some time we see the success of the other without know the process and we want ti get the goal without hard work. Fortunately, i read many your posts and i think need to reflect in my self.
In life we are always faced with the challenge that will make us mature, more mature in action. Every time we will stumble and then see one problem from one side to forgetting something else. but when we know from another point of view then we feel grateful to have problems become better in managing ourselves.

Thank you @chbartist
Warm regard from Indonesia