Be careful when talking most times

in #mindset5 years ago (edited)

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I know some already know it is best to be careful when interacting but do you fully understand why you have to be careful? I will take my time to say a little I observed when I was stoned again.
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The body action doesn't always interpret what you mean:- The language is a very difficult thing we got used to while growing up and we tend to use expressions to make people understand the situation better. Saying something like "Wtf is wrong with you"while sitting and putting a smile will clearly show that you are being cool with the person and only those that only hate the use of that word will get the wrong message. That will be the opposite case if you are to say the same sentence while standing and showing a grumpy. Your body already passed the message that you are pissed and that word will sound very much offensive to who ever you are directing it to. .

You might have guessed but that to be clear, if you sound offensive while angry it will surely stir up something but saying something like "Come on bro, why did you do that for" even while you are grumpy, If your words sound more pleasant. It passes a more relaxing message to the person brain, remember the language is to express your feelings and communicate. It can be misinterpreted, try to make your words sound and feel the way you really want to be understood.

We all were once ignorant and just roaming around and we basically understood little of what we try to pass to each other. We started getting familiar with sounds and body expression and that is what evolved to language. Nothing special and that is why some things sound familiar in some languages and tend to want to mean same thing too. It is just plain familiarity, that is why we should be more careful when passing messages to maybe a foreigner or someone that speaks another language cause what your kind see as respect might be regarded as being offensive to the foreigner.
Sometimes, we annoy others without us being aware and instead of us trying to resolve, we tend to get carried away by the language and expression the person delivers and then, we also get angry. The words is just to help us understand better and avoid such barbarian acts but it cant always be ignored, since we are humans.
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