Hello, first of all, thank you for this interesting reading. With regard to the subject, I think that having so many disappointments in our lives we can develop that commenting "mechanism of defense", however, should bear in mind that we should not judge everyone equally, we should seek support in our family, if it becomes In a serious problem already serious question of seeking professional help. But it is best to cling to our loved ones, and not let that person who harmed us, cause an imbalance in the relationships we may have later. Not all of us think alike and it is not fair that we are judged by actions of others. Similarly, trust is not something that develops in the first instance, but first of all we have to help ourselves to meet other people and that does not affect the behavior we can have in the social field.