Learning to Love the Pain That Comes with Beginning the Journey...

in #mindset5 years ago

Hello, dear Steemians!

There are many factors that contribute to one’s success in life. In our previous articles, we have talked about the ways with which you can achieve your goals, like the things you have to do every morning, or how you should bring consistency to your schedule, or how you must change your mindset in order to see your goals as they are and strive in a proper path to realize them.

But like many things, success is a coin with two sides. One side is for the people who see you and your success; how you have achieved great things and how prosperous your life appears as a result of that.

But the other side of that coin is pain and misery; the pain and misery that we will have to go through to achieve success.


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Reminding yourself of the pain and misery is often difficult. Many people do not like to talk about this aspect of going after your dreams. One of the most inspiring qualities of successful people is that they all love pain.

That must be a weird sentence to hear, but bear with me as I make this case.

People judge your success with what they see; they know that you have achieved something of true value and as a result of that, your life has improved for better.

Even more inspiring might be the idea that you have also changed many lives with the things you have done or said.

These people always fail to see what you must have gone through to arrive at the place you are now. For them, the idea of success is not something afflicted with pain, and that is why they will never achieve success for themselves.


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Learn to love the pain.

Know that the pain of doing something difficult will always be rewarded.

Understand that in order to achieve great things, you must be willing to go to great lengths and pay the price of greatness.

A man who decides to go to the gym and work out has a tough week ahead of him. Perhaps after the first day of working out he will feel pain throughout his body, but that does not stop him, nor does it disappoint him. He does not so easily give in.

Because he knows a principle that we all fail to see. He knows that pain is temporary, while grace is everlasting. To achieve grace, one must be willing to tolerate the pain of the journey.


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Obstacles give you challenge and pain, but try to channel that energy into creative force and learn to love the pain that you are going through.

After all, no growth of any measure or value has ever been achieved without pain or hard and difficult work.

The fruit of your endeavors will be to eventually rid yourself of the pain and cherish the result of your achievement and victory.

If you truly want to understand what it takes to be successful, learn to love the pain and fearlessly enter the path that begins your journey towards realizing your dreams!!!!

A BIG HUG!

@chbartist

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You are right about success is like a coin, one side glory and the other side pain and misery.

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Yeah, pain is a force that penetrates the innermost parts of human components causing certain feeling of discomfort and inexplicable sort of agony within.
To endure pain is the fulfillment of the soul's freedom to soar to its highest peak leading to the source of all, the Almighty power.

You are right. If people do not allow themselves to be hurt, to feel pain and get angry, they will never take the next step and will not achieve the goal

If a person goes to the goal, he must always sacrifice with something. Sometimes it is very difficult and painful. But as you say it will pay off in full.

Oh yes @chbartist, I completely agree with you, the price of success has always been difficulties and pain. If we learn to treat our pain more rationally and philosophically, then success will come faster and without serious consequences!

Excellent review, my friend and a very good motivation! Our path to success is always associated with different influences and the pain here occupies a significant place, but this is a natural principle of life, so we just need to understand our pain and direct it to our good! Thank you @chbartist

Pain is not the birth of the moment, some of it is an old legacy passed through the generations, such as the pain of the family, community or society, prevails and transmitted through culture and through learning and imitation as a model for the individual. Some painful positions derived from the experience of the individual himself,

Behind this mass of pain is the ego, which feeds on this weakness and grows, especially from the small positions that start with the idea of ​​pain from something trivial, imaginary or past, so that it grows, grows and swells, and becomes dominant over the person himself, Suffer pain or the same degree, but they have not yet appeared, as they are looking for a similar, the mass of moving pain meets with the static to form a collective pain, and so grow up to form a miserable and frustrated group do not see from life without deficiency and helplessness, we find many criticism and discontent frustrated, Want to work or change or even change the same idea to optimism and hope, we find them - unfortunately - in our societies frequently, living pessimism and living on the margin and dependency.

If the person is immersed in the past sad situations, such as the death of Aziz in the past, and the recovery of that loss and pain, and entering into his circle until the pain, it affects his thoughts and his view of life negatively, it becomes irrelevant or not to accept, and plunge pessimism, even His mental, family and professional life is disrupted, then he becomes a helpless, unproductive person in life.

Living at the present time positively a thousand times better to live the past or fear of the future, or follow the tragic stories or dramatic events.

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