The nickname of self-confidence is neither humble nor exuberant.

A confident person can not only let others communicate with him, can not help but trust him, but also find that this person always has an irresistible influence.

"self-confidence" is what, "self-confidence" is that they like themselves, their own believe in themselves, their own recognition of themselves. Instead of others believing in themselves, others recognizing themselves, others believe that they are called "Thaksin", not "self-confidence."

A few years ago, someone asked me, which is more important for others to like themselves or for themselves to like themselves?

My answer was that both were important. But now I'm going to say:

If you can't do both, it's more important to like yourself.

Because we need to know the truth, no matter how good you are, no matter how perfect, there are always people who don't like you, there are always people who hate you.

Similarly, no matter how bad you are, someone still likes us.

I like a sentence very much: "I have all kinds of feelings, no dispute with the world." I think it's the highest level of life.

In the case of not interfering with others, in the case of not causing trouble to others, in fact, do not really attach so much importance to other people's ideas, do not have to attach so much importance to other people's opinions.

If your freedom interferes with others, this is no good, if your freedom affects the freedom of others, that is not possible, if your freedom is immoral, then no, there is a freedom rule in Fudan, as long as you do not affect others, Whatever you want.

When you like yourself, you exude a kind of confidence, a kind of freedom from the inside out.

The source of true confidence comes from yourself. being yourself is the only way to be truly confident. you like yourself is to have real confidence.

At the same time, like a lot of people, I don't like self-righteous people.

They always believe in their own judgment, their own talents, their own choices, no matter how correct or objective others provide, they still insist on their own views.

Such people also seem to be very "confident", but always feel that there is something wrong with such "self-confidence".

A girl who is quick and capable and reliable in the eyes of the people around her, directing around when planning activities, is often not considered too strong.

A girl who is average in appearance and lazy in the eyes of the people around her, who hopes that the other person will have money and face when looking for another half, is often not regarded as a goddess.

The former will be considered confident and capable, while the latter will make people feel conceited and thinking too much.

Each of us aspires to be a confident person, and none of us wants to be accused of being "conceited". But many times, we will find that the line between "self-confidence" and "conceit" does not seem clear, it seems difficult to distinguish.

A lot of times it looks confident, sonorous and loud, but in fact it's just arrogance and self-esteem.

We often mistake "conceit" for "confidence" because they share a common premise: believe in yourself.

Their relationship is subtle, like "light" and "dark" projected by the same beam of light.

"self-confidence" and "conceit", are "believe in themselves", but the difference in the "degree" is different.

If "self-confidence" remains "moderate", it is true "self-confidence"; once "self-confidence" is excessive, it will degenerate into "conceit".

"self-confidence" or "conceit" has one thing in common: believe in yourself.

A "confident" person can certainly see his own abilities and understand his own boundaries and strengths, but a "conceited" person is different. he cannot see his own level, nor does he know how many catties he is. anyway, he thinks I can, I can do it.

This is what we used to say: "people have self-knowledge."

What is within your power, what can not be controlled, what is awe, you know this, you have self-knowledge.

If you really think you're "omnipotent," over time, mistake yourself for God. Once a person becomes a "god", it means "as high as the sky" and "get away with it", which is the typical "lawlessness".

If a person can concentrate on his favorite things, do his best, show his ability, has been very lucky, very happy, what is the need to pursue everything, omnipotent?

"self-confidence" is neither inferiority nor arrogance, which is the almost perfect balance between the two extremes of "inferiority" and "arrogance." That impartial, appropriate "middle way," so sometimes we give confidence a nickname-"neither humble nor overbearing."

As Socrates put it: "the more I know, the wider the unknown I touch." "

The world is not narrower and smaller and less interesting because of our increasingly full "cognition". On the contrary, it will become wider and more wonderful with the height of our vision and the widening of our hearts.

A clear understanding of yourself and the world is the first step towards "self-confidence."

If you find yourself not as good as you thought, you can put your mind to it and work hard.

Or, you can tap into your other bright spots and take advantage of your strengths and avoid your weaknesses.

When you really reach the level you expect, you will naturally win the respect of others and speak and do things with your own demeanor.