Thanks. I try not to be a victim. Sometimes I feel like one, or am one, but rarely these days. I want to be in power! The ruler of my mind ;)

I don't listen to Freeman but I've heard of it from Marc Passio. Part of it is indeed what you describe. There are a lot of reasons they do that programming and it gives many results. And yes, step-parents, especially the step-mothers are the evil Witches. Funny thing is, I'm pagan, so I could be viewed as a witch by some. My step-daughter, when she was younger, and sometimes both kids still today, adopt an attitude of "Save me father from this evil woman!" As though it's that. I tutor them in English second language, they don't want to do it, they feel obliged, hence I am forcing them, so hence evil. They want daddy to save them. Of course, he never does. If they ask him something that I asked them to do, he tells them that I already told them. It bothers us, but we know how to correct that programming. A programming that was done to them before we knew that it existed. Less and less they feel the need to have their father save them from their step-mother, either of their step-mothers, because they act the same way with their mother's wife as they do with me sometimes. We work to remove that programming and work on trust.

The savoir thing is a big problem and part of the Triangle of Hell (which I'm actually going to be talking about in a future video on my Green Healing channel). As explained by Marc Passio, the goal is to be outside or inside, but observe and adopt each role when necessary. But the programming keeps us perpetually stuck in one role, and some of us fluctuate between two of the roles. Victim, Aggressor and Savior. Some people with a Savior complex try to save everyone and then tend to become Aggressors or victims if they fail or the person seems ungrateful. Others a naturally victims, and either become aggressors when triggered and such. Usually. Aggressors often take the savior role, abusers do that. That Triangle of Hell/Melodrama exists in part because of that Princess Programming.