5 things which should not be done for men

in #men8 years ago

When you lose something on your head, or if you feel unsafe, very easy to bring the other persons wants and needs higher than you own. If you consider yourself not stop, you will not experience even as you lose yourself. You will lose your identity, originality and all that, which captivated the opposite sex. Women should keep in mind that some things should not be done than for the beloved man, than for anything else.

5 things which should not be done for the men (and nothing else):

Change the look.
If your second half is a decent man, he will never force you to change their appearance due to personal whims. He should love you for who you are and love you all. If your weight, or hair style really hinder him, then he is not with you, for serious reasons. Any physical changes you should do because you want to own, rather than less, to get attention from the other person.

Abandoning his dream.
No one should prevent you from achieving your goals. After all, it's your life and your dreams. Only you and the regret if if you don't dare to dream. Missed opportunity to change jobs or to postpone the dream subsequent times this may seem like the best solution, but keep in mind that in the future no guarantees. Your partner should support your efforts and if there will always be near, it's a big plus for him.

Waiting for his approval.
A strong woman lives by its own rules and does not wait for instructions on what to do from the other person. It should insist on their decisions, and not to wait until someone confirms that everything you're doing well. After all, you are an adult woman, and most know what you're doing and what you need most.

Cancel plans.
You can change plans if something important happens, but not to do so only because you want to spend time with your second half. Your friends and family do not end up on the sidelines, or remembered only when the second half can not spend time with you. If you respect the partner, he will understand and will find time to meet next time.

Allow it to change you.
Do not try to change myself for anything else, except only for ourselves. And if you decide to somehow improve yourself, you must firmly know that you will become a better version of their own. It may be that he would love, if you change something in themselves, but the desire to change the show that he sincerely like such what you are. Never forget who you are.

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This seems to be the original source of the post that was translated into English by you: http://priekavos.lt/5-dalykai-kuriu-nereiketu-daryti-del-vyru/

Relationships are give and take, it's a partnership not a dictatorship. However both parties must give a little of themselves up in order for the partnership to work. If you aren't willing to change anything in your life then you aren't ready to be in a relationship... You're also in for a huge surprise if you have kids, say bye bye to who you want to be because you will be come who they need you to be.

I agree. This could be titled, no offense to the author, as "How to Remain an Unmarried Woman for the Rest of Your Life".

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