Communicate with men's thinking
What are the skills to communicate with men? Many women have this question.
The most important thing between men and women is communication.
However, women also face a problem when communicating. What should a man do when he doesn't like communication or wants to avoid communication?
To achieve "effective communication", women must communicate with them using male thinking.
-Clarify the purpose of the dialogue.
For a man, if he knows the purpose of a conversation, it will be much easier to conduct the conversation, and their willingness to participate in the exchange will be stronger.
If a woman wants to communicate with a man, she might say:
"I want to talk to you."
"I think we haven't discussed our relationship together for a long time."
When a person hears such words, they tend to be nervous and have many questions:
What's going on here? What to say? What is her purpose?
Is there a problem again? Or does she want to break up again?
When faced with uncertain things, men will be a little irritable and uneasy, and will even become an excuse for deliberately delaying communication with you.
What men worry most is that they need to guess what a woman is thinking, because for a straight man, he doesn't understand what a woman is thinking.
For this reason, we can improve our way of speaking. In this way, many of the problems mentioned above can be avoided. For example: when you have something to communicate with him, you can say to him:
"Can we chat tonight? I'm very busy lately. I want to talk with you about some of our travels. I need to take some time to play by myself."
In this case, it not only clarifies the specific time, but also clarifies the content and purpose of the dialogue.
After listening, men will not feel that they have a great psychological burden.
I am willing to communicate with women. In fact, communication is very simple. It doesn't need too much skill, too many gorgeous words, etc. It only needs a sincere, intentional, and clear way.
If you still don’t have a good grasp of the core, the best way is that we can put ourselves in the minds of others, think about others, and think about how he feels when he hears what we say. Then we know how to say it. Up.
Of course, communication is not limited to this one problem. In fact, there are still many problems that we need to improve. But as long as we have this mentality, all problems will be solved slowly.