We've remained friends for all these years and her second husband died a few years ago, but I think I'd be happier just staying friends with her at this point. I still love her; we have a common bond (a child and grandchildren) but not 'in love' with her so-to-speak.

Besides, if I hooked up with her again, she'd probably make me kick out my Haram...then where would all these other ladies go for the proper love and support!?!?!?