Living in Monster's In-Law!

The day started a little bit sunny and suddenly it's raining for a few minutes. Everything is ready and willing to go either the rain will stop or still keep on pouring.

This is the story of this two lovely couple whom I witnessed last Monday. After 8 years of living together the day of their marriage has been pushed through, thanks to us we are one of the reason why the marriage was being plan and done.

They already had 2 lovely kids both are girls, the older is 7 and in grade 2 while the youngest is 6 and in grade one. They look so happy and excited in that very moment of their life. Though it's a civil wedding but we insist the bride to wear a wedding gown. She don't need to rent for it by the way, it's a wedding gown of our friends sister who offer to let her wear, so are the gown of her two kids. From the wedding cakes whom we contributed to buy the ingredients and the two of our friends bake it for them. The place and decorations also set by us just to give them a full support for we want that they will be pursue according to plan.

But before this day this is their life especially to the woman.

The man's parent and one sister is not in favor with her. The parents is some what like a strick the mother had an unkind attitude too. But in sisters side is different story and that's the controversy of it that we also got upset if she told us everytime she was being rebuked and bad mouthing by her in-laws. They don't give her good attention it seems like they wanted to punished her by living in with their son. But for all of this she continue and accept the bad treatment they showed her though they live in different house but it's so near with the man's parent and sister.

Until one day her mother in-law got mild stroke and become bed ridden, being paralyzed it always stay in her wheelchair the worst is "she is the one who took care of that bad mother in-law" from cooking her food, let her drink the medicine, changing her clothes as far as cleaning her dirt. Where is the husband and the their daughter? They never do it, in short she became and instant caregiver! Aside from taking care of her two kids and her partner, she also taking care of her partners parents ohh my gosh, even their own daughter who lives near by never help her or do anything. That wicked lady never cook her own food but instead depend on the food she prepared for her own family, so the result she has to cook big meals everytime for all of the entire family! The worst she has to cook porridge for the stroke mother and go around to the house of man's parents just to deliver the cooked porridge! Huh, they abused her kindness and patience, for she never complained about it. She took all of those pains they given her.

Until one day she is late cooking porridge for her mother in-law for she has important thing to attained in her kids school, guess what happened! Her father in-law was so mad like crazy dog, it bring a long sharp blade and shouting to her "you have no use, your a son of a bitch! In that instant she recalls everything.... Everything she had suffered and undergo with these parents and sister. The heart ached they cause her, the sacrificed she had done in taking care of his wife. This time she shout back regaining the strength and courage, she then bravery faced the old man and said while holding the long sharp blade pointing to her neck "ooh, yes, yes now then kill me! Kill whom you have said I'm no good of nothing. Kill this girl who have no used in your family. I just wanted you to know, this girl is the only girl who takes care of your wife all the time, and this girl is the only one who endured and wiped your wife's butt when she wasted and dirt!

While saying this to us we find satisfaction and content, we felt happy and said "that's good, and good for them" at least they know now that you hold back and endured every insult they said to you. Because you respect them but they're too much. Though her husband new this and felt anger with them, he can't do anything for I think for him it is his duty to fulfill his parents need and must look after them. I don't know... Maybe.

Their lives together have many ups and downs that sometimes she ended up saying she wants to quit and give up. But for the big love she had for his husband she swallowed it all. Most of the time when his in-laws made bad things just to provoke her, the two of them ended up quarrel and arquing each other.

Many times she wanted to leave but her husband will do efforts to make her calm and make-up again after the heated events. Their lives is always like this, round and round all over again and mostly the reason of their arguments are his parents and sister. But now something are change a little bit. Her monster in-law slowly back-off and rarely fight her. Maybe, her father in law was awake by the truth, on how big she give to take good care his stroked wife. For he don't even cook food for his own wife, but instead they depends what she can cook for them. But for their bad treats, if I were her? How I wish to cook them a poison, hahaha. Good for them.

But in his sister side, her sister-in-law is another story. Ever since they starts living-in together this sisters in-law act differently. In that very day when she moves to live in, in that evening this older sister in-law sleeps together with them! She sleeps in the near bed in their room. As in she's like a guard, guarding that nothing will happen in that night! What the heck is her problem? We are all shock while she told us this story, what we all say is just "what?' others agape and can't believed.

What puzzles her is that. Everytime this sister in-law have tantrums and made quarrel to them she will shouted and say: "aahhh, you really don't value me anymore my brother, you don't listen to me at all, you broke and didn't fullfiled the agreement that we had!" And everytime she asked her husband what is that promise or agreement that her sister reffered about he won't tell her and just say naahh, don't mind it, it's nothing. It's nothing? But why? Why this is always his sister's issue if she like to have fight with them? Is there something in that sister? Big question ha?

Well at least for now that they have been tied for the rest of their lives together with their two cute little girl, she has all the right now to stand for her ground not to be shake by this monster in-laws.

And that day is finally come, in spite of troubles, trials, hindrance of their way they finally make it. Of course, by the little help of a friends. In bride's side is us which I belong, and groom's friends who also give favor. They also pursue the groom's to settle down and got married to this woman which is the mother of his little girls.

The day started rainy but it stop before the time of the ceremony. Everybody is prepared and ready.

We arrived at the place a little bit early and while waiting for the groom and bride. Let me introduce the people who are behind of this event to make it happened. Who influenced and give full support to the couple:

The bride's friends:

And inside of the mayor's office where the ceremony takes placed. I and my fellow witnessed only are allowed to enter:

Me, bride and one other friend as witnessed (ninangs)

In the reception:

The place is enough for a few chosen invited people friends, co-worker and relatives. It's sad to say the father, mother, and one groom's sister wasn't present they have their own reason and beside sorry to say it's better that they're not here to be able to continue the day without any harm done. Besides they are the monster in-law. They're not invited hahaha!

The bride got her aunt and uncle, older brother of her father for she is already an orphan.

Let's forget loneliness side, let's make the groom and bride happy!

After a few minutes of waiting we start the beauty of unforgettable day of their life.

From slicing the cake and drinking of wine:

Of course, it will not be completed without the couple's kiss!

The day is done with blessings upon the two newly wed couple, who again will start their journey in the most blissful way together with their young ones.

Congratulations and best wishes to both of you!

And to our friend, be strong and have faith for everything you do. You are now a fullfiled woman. You are now: