You go girl. I am married but we are certainly not planning to have kids at this times and I found myself in your post. There are so many things in front of me I want to achieve before 30 (I am 28 right now). People often ask me when I am going to have kids. In the past, I always answered that I certainly want to have kids probably within a few years just so I can satisfy others with my answer. Now I just say it as it is. I don't even know if I want to have kids. People always stay surprised but who cares. Love your spirit. We would certainly have something to talk about.